feat: 优化服务管理脚本 - 修复硬编码路径、中文乱码和依赖等待逻辑

- 修复 Windows 控制台中文编码乱码
- 新增 ExecutableFinder 动态查找 Node/Maven/npm 可执行文件路径
- 重构 ProcessManager.start 使用动态路径替代硬编码
- 修复 _start_all 依赖等待逻辑，避免误判未就绪服务
- restart 命令支持 all 参数（默认重启所有服务）
- clean 命令增强：Node 清理 node_modules/dist/.vite，Java 清理 target
- PID 严格验证：检查进程 cwd 是否匹配服务目录
- 进度条显示稳定：百分比变化 >= 10% 才刷新
- mini-program 补充 log_file 配置

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 <noreply@anthropic.com>

manage.conf.yaml

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+# 情绪博物馆 - 服务管理配置文件
+# Emotion Museum - Service Management Configuration
+
+services:
+  backend:
+    name: "后端服务"
+    dir: "backend-single"
+    type: "java"
+    port: 19089
+    health_check_path: "/actuator/health"
+    start_cmd: "mvn spring-boot:run"
+    build_cmd: "mvn clean package -DskipTests"
+    build_check: "target/emotion-single-1.0.0.jar"
+    lock_file: "pom.xml"
+    pid_file: ".pid"
+    log_file: "logs/emotion-single-local.log"
+    depends_on: []
+    env:
+      SPRING_PROFILES_ACTIVE: "local"
+
+  web:
+    name: "用户前端"
+    dir: "web"
+    type: "node"
+    port: 5173
+    health_check_path: "/"
+    start_cmd: "npm run dev"
+    install_cmd: "npm install"
+    install_check: "node_modules"
+    lock_file: "package-lock.json"
+    pid_file: ".pid"
+    depends_on: ["backend"]
+
+  web-admin:
+    name: "管理后台"
+    dir: "web-admin"
+    type: "node"
+    port: 5174
+    health_check_path: "/"
+    start_cmd: "npm run dev"
+    install_cmd: "npm install"
+    install_check: "node_modules"
+    lock_file: "package-lock.json"
+    pid_file: ".pid"
+    depends_on: ["backend"]
+
+  mini-program:
+    name: "小程序 H5"
+    dir: "mini-program"
+    type: "node"
+    port: 5175
+    health_check_path: "/"
+    start_cmd: "npm run dev:h5"
+    install_cmd: "npm install"
+    install_check: "node_modules"
+    lock_file: "package-lock.json"
+    pid_file: ".pid"
+    log_file: "logs/dev-h5.log"
+    depends_on: ["backend"]